All's not well? Oh, it's time to clear your glasses!

There are bad days and then there are really grumpy ones. How do you deal with it?

(Please do not read this if you're already in a bad mood because at that time, nothing works.)

Well I always say, people are different and so are their way of taking things. If you just had a bad day, you would not even feel like reading this. Any quote, any blogpost can't make you feel better. It's just you who can come out of it. It's just we who know how to deal with it. Nobody will or can possibly get into your shoes and analyze the situation your way. If you ask me, I would just take out my cellphone, feed all the item songs, yes the real loud ones and just plug my earphones in, put in flight mode and keep listening to them till I fall asleep. A pretty weird way to deal with circumstances, I know. But how do you judge it, whether you're right or wrong? How do we make a decision at that point of time when everything in this world seems negative to you. When you just had a breakup call, when you just had a fight with your closest friend, when you just mistreated your mother or maybe all of it altogether. (Haha!! That is one hell of a situation). No psychiatrist or no counsellor would help you, or would strike your mind that time. That is when the rescue team comes into picture, but sadly that team comprises of a single person, and that is you. At that point of time, try not to, in fact NEVER, ask yourself any questions,

"What do you mean to yourself?",
"What does the concerned person you had a fight with, mean to you?",
"How does this affect you and that person?"
"Who is responsible for it?"
"Who started it, Who provoked it?"

This is because these questions can never be answered correctly, one can never take a correct decision with a heavy heart. You just block all your senses and can think of nothing, and when you can't think of something, how are you supposed to come to a decision.

So, you may think, what exactly do we need to do, how exactly are we supposed to tackle the situation? Tell me something, what excites you the most, Shopping? Singing? Playing a guitar? Playing a game? Sleeping? Cooking? Well, I'm sure there must be something you'd love to do. Pick that up and fill it in that void place where you don't know how to act. Think of nothing else, thinking at that moment is clearly banned. Just pick up one of those things which you actually love doing and which brings a smile on your face. (Not the ones which brings out unnecessary memories.) Like never go for sad and slow songs if you just had a breakup. They never work, just delete them all from your playlist. Choose something which recharges you instantly. Cook for someone, smile for someone, go and hug your puppy, help someone with their shopping, go out, look around; are you the only sad one? There are people who don't even know what a smile means, how does it feel getting hugged, getting loved. Go to their rescue, and in the meanwhile you may find yourself lighter and then you may realise what went wrong in between you and the person concerned.

Whenever the situations go worse, or the time isn't favouring you, take a pause and tune in to some other melody. Life isn't that difficult and mean as we see it. We just need to clear our glasses at times. :)
Love some more, and get loved. It's always a GIVE AND TAKE thing
.